So why not do it more often? With your lover. In a role play.
I touched on this concept last week with Miss Kitty but I think it begs for more discussion. Because even though finding a soul mate, a trusted lover and a life companion is one of the greatest gifts in life, there’s that little bitty part about never having a new lover again.
Not the most erotic reality.
So change it.
Become the naughty schoolgirl, the sexy neighbor, the French chamber maid, the doctor, the dominatrix, the erotic photographer, the stripper, the intern, the bodyguard, the nanny, the Chippendales dancer, the personal trainer, the prom queen.
Don a wig, heels, dramatic make up, ripped fishnet stockings, skin tight silk boxer briefs. Play with props: a cigarette, a feather boa, a stethoscope, a feather duster, a string of pearls.
I don’t care who you become or what you wear just get outside yourself. Get into character. See what words come out of your mouth. See how differently your hands move across the landscape of your lover’s skin.
Get warmed up to the idea tonight. And when your lover gives you the choice between trick or treat, summon your inner call girl and go for the trick.
Let’s start now. You are the role-playing neophyte. I am the expert. Ask away.
Share one of your favorite sexy role plays and I’ll share some of mine.