One of my favorite essays from my erotic memoir is a yogic self pleasuring piece, the one I had the privilege of reading at last year’s Seattle Erotic Arts Festival. 

But two friends who have read and critiqued my manuscript, have questioned its authenticity, namely the number of orgasms.

Really? reads a comment from a friend in the Pacific Northwest, Another one?

This may be hard for people to believe, wrote a friend on the East Coast.  I need a power tool of a vibrator to have any hope of achieving an orgasm and you have several doing yoga naked on your deck alone?  This may be another book but I want to know more about that.

And then another friend e-mailed and wanted to know more about those full-body, sensual orgasms I wrote about in this post.

So let's kick off Blog Me Sexy 2013 by talking about orgasmativity, being more orgasmic with life, shall we? 

I am by no means a scholar or an expert on orgasms (but wouldn’t that be a fun master’s degree?) but I can share with you my experience on becoming more orgasmic. I have to do this in a three- part series though because this is much too big and important of a topic for one blog post.

And as always, I’ll look forward to hearing your thoughts, comments and experiences on the topic. If you are a little shy, believe me, my Inner Catholic girl totally gets that. Give your sexy self a pen name and don’t share an e-mail address in the comments.

You may be surprised at what she/he has to say.

I always am.

Sexy Prod:

Write down your sexy intentions for 2013. Any passions you want to pursue? Sexy places you want to go?  New lovers you hope to attract?  Books you hope to publish?

Share a few in the comments~that kind of boldness always boosts the mainfestation factor.

1/9/2013 12:42:27 am

Okay, I'll go first. I start with my A-list sexy intentions:

Alaska. Africa. Another craniosacral training.

1/24/2013 11:19:03 am

I'd love to have my own shop--crafts, books, an open space for creativity to flow. And coffee.

1/29/2013 09:56:14 pm

I'll hold that vision for you, Gorgeous Flower of a Woman. Will you also have a boudoir-like corner with vintage/thrift clothes and jewelry? You have such a gift for the art of feminine adornement that I must encourage you to share.


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